understanding how others' friendships grow
and observing how they are
is different from constructing one.

build one, rebuild broken ones
or read how is the actual situation with loved ones
need time.
but more, courage.

the moments in a relationship
blind us.
this is it's most difficult,
but also it's most beautiful part.

today is Valentine's Day.
for somebody, today is a special and important day.
for others is just one of the 365 days of the year.

twenty times of same Valentine's Day
makes me think if there must have a romantic scene.

...
no more exclusivity of medieval courtly love.

we are in 21st century and we are already
used to live with billions of forms of love.
maybe we can celebrate 14th Feb. for:
familial love
friendship
fraternal love
or even kindness that we feel from others
and not excluding the real love of lovers...

when people in love tell me:
"enjoy your days of being single..."
i know that it's not so suffering as they say.
i can think: "wt are you talking about??? pity?"
but no... enjoying personal life is important,
just like giving a little bit of Sun to the plants
so they can grow up.


maybe St. Valentine is getting updated...

in a short period of time,
can happen all kinds of "turn-around's"
in friendship.

actually, this is a really difficult subject
to be studied. or maybe pratical lessons
are just the main evaluated thing.

trying to ignore somebody?
or are you already ignoring someone?
what if u try to talk to them?
this is hard... but if u can,
it will be a really big evolution.